after searching my tail off for the last few days i have found a way...i do not take credit for this only credit for the hours and hours of searching
First, you will need a registry editor. Here is one:
http://www.zshare.net/download/55813061d7acba/Once installed, open it up and go to:
HKLM\Software\OEM\PhoneSetting
Once there, you should see an item called HiddenModeOperationPage
By default is should show:
1
Now change the 1 to a 0
Once that is done, go to settings-->phone--->services
Scroll down on the menu and you should now see Mode of Operation. In there, you can choose to have your phone in Hybrid mode(switching between EVDO and 1X automatically if EVDO is unstable), EVDO Only, or 1X Only.